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+ At the

Hairpin

,
A Queer Chick answered questions
about homophobia, top nail size for lesbian gender (brief and sleek) and bisexuality:

“While I ended up being but a new and inexperienced Queer Chick, I invested a shockingly number of years being aware by every lesbian I knew that I became not queer, because I experienced outdated a boy. So, in an effort to prove that I found myself really The Gayest, I slept with all of these girlfriends.

No, i recently believed awful and insecure about me for some time, and had been worried to follow women because I was thinking they might reject me for not-being queer enough, until eventually some ineffable transmutation happened and for no evident cause I believed prepared stand large (really, normal top. Really, type short, actually) and state: ‘I like boys and girls! I might like women some added! Whenever you disapprove, you’re a lot more than introducing not need gender beside me!'”

+ Goddess of Java published regarding the polyamorous second connection card and
not treating folks like situations
:

“I genuinely have no idea what gladly opening an union seems like. I’ve never ever noticed any such thing near hand while havingn’t the faintest idea exactly what it seems like.

Everything I do know, is really what an effective commitment appears like. The thing I do know is exactly how to treat people.

All the dilemmas illustrated on this card revolve around treating men and women as situations. It moves around dealing with them as objects for gratification. That is not just what really love appears to be, but I am sure you know that.”

Related: Solopoly wrote about
the grownup examination
, communication and negotiation.

+ Without My Consent provides a round-up of all of the development connected with
creating payback porno illegal
.

+
Make Love Perhaps Not Porn
is actually “a start-up web site made to shatter the myths of pornography and invite anyone to discuss their unique romantic times with a greater audience, providing a real-life demo of just what sex is truly like.”

+ Good Vibrations has actually a round-up regarding the
Feminist Porn Awards and also the Feminist Porn Meeting
, and the
listing of winners
.

+ sensory considers
exactly how sex on tumblr can change news media
:

“gender should already end up being almost everywhere in American news media. The media are part of a sensuous class of painters, vocalists, artists, novelists, writers, filmmakers and poets. Every track is all about foreplay, fucking or fallout; “Fifty colors of gray” is the latest top seller and a painter’s raison d’etre is the topless. I recall in Dorothy Allison’s “Bastard from Carolina,” the key girl, Bone, masturbates against a tree limb at 12 or 13. Which is honesty you may never review in a newspaper, and that’s ironic, because documents should mirror anyone’s interests. News media’s long been tied up all the way down by two prude dudes: The usa, which determined that political news and physical violence tales tend to be more acceptable than nude booties. And marketing and advertising, who always bows to governmental heat or becomes upwards in arms when an ad is put too near sex. Just as if a Chevy is far more sacred than fucking. Scram, man!”

Listed here is a poem individually, it really is from

Exactly what the Living Do
(W. W. Norton & Co., 1998) by Marie Howe:

Exercising

I would like to write a love poem for all the ladies I kissed in 7th level,

a tune for what we performed on to the ground into the basement

of somebody’s parents’ home, a hymn for what we failed to state but believed:

That feels very good or I really like that, whenever we learned how to open each other’s mouths

just how to go all of our tongues to manufacture someone groan. We called it training, and

one was actually the guy, therefore we combined off—maybe six or eight girls—and turned out

the lighting and kissed and kissed until we had been stoned on kisses, and lifted the

nightgowns or allow bands fall, and, Now you become kid:

real floor, resting case or sofa, playroom, video game area, train room, laundry.

Linda’s basement was like a motorboat with stands and portholes

rather than windowpanes. Gloria’s daddy had a club downstairs with stools that spun,

plush carpeting. We kissed both’s throats.

We sucked one another’s breasts, therefore kept scars, and not talked from it upstairs

outside, in daylight, perhaps not when. We did it, and it ended up being

practicing, and slept, sprawled very our legs however closed or crossed, a hand still missing

in somebody’s tresses … so we grew up and scarcely mentioned just who

the first kiss really was—a lady like united states, still gluey with lotion we’d

provided inside the bathroom. I wish to create a track

for that dense silence at nighttime, as well as the very first pure excitement of unreluctant desire,

just before we might made our selves stop.

–

+ a study of 100 (right) Australian females was applied to-draw some pretty broad results about females and intercourse (“science demonstrates women like men with larger penises!”). Though it’s not queer,
this information how the mainstream media exploits “science” to reinforce sex stereotypes
is quite interesting:

In guise to be supported by clinical authority, development channels can tout researches’ results — or occasionally, selectively highlight specific effects — to reinforce
gender-based stereotypes
. However, pointing out research additionally sets up a scenario in which it is tougher for competitors to get issue because of the those scientific studies, because it
can happen like they’re objecting to medical fact
given that they should not think the reality.

+ Friendship is
the matrimony
:

“Those relationships shaped the usual roller coaster journey that is your 20s: break-ups, task losses, later part of the book inspections, evictions, diabolically ill-conceived evenings away, and many techniques into fifth-floor walkups. During my thirties, there is supported one another through weddings, household crises, matrimony, and children.

These connections tend to be as close to unconditional when I can desire to find, and they will carry on throughout my entire life. It isn’t really hard in my situation to assume fulfilling these females for happy time on a beach in Miami before hitting the early-bird unique at pension house cafeteria.

Sadly alike shouldn’t be said for my personal passionate interactions.

Or maybe not unfortunately.”

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